Let's Get Ready to Rumble
In Michael Cole’s Cultural
Psychology, he states, “However it was not long before difference became
deficiency” (9). This, to me, became the
undercurrent for how differences were treated and a poor excuse that continues today.
My immediate response affirms the saying, “people fear what they don’t
know.” This fear is a great motivator in
many cases. The fear that your
difference is a threat to my reality inspires me to act in a way that preserves my
existence with no regard of yours. It
also, in my opinion, creates binary thinking; that is unlike this, and is
therefore bad.
Consider the application of this phenomena in today’s
classrooms. Punishment is practiced, and 'easy' to enforce, but who is ultimately punished? More often than not, it is the students who
are considered different in some way. Our conditioning since the beginning of time tells us any
differentiation deserves punishment because it is deficient. I would argue that these differences are also
feared because they are not readily understood.
I would like to introduce a binary that could possibly be
the cure to the dilemma we face… Curiosity
v. Indifference. When a teacher is
indifferent, s/he strips students of their dignity and humanity. Indifference makes it easy for fear to impose
itself and punishment to be freely given. Many students' negative interactions are with teachers who are indifferent. However, curiosity requires us to check ourselves and our biases. It becomes the tool to find commonalities (instead of focusing on differences) and the vehicle towards understanding. Imagine the patience a teacher would show students
if s/he was curious! How much harder
would s/he work to get every student into the self-efficacy continuum? How much more would a student feel validated and believed in if only a teacher took an interest? The best part about curiosity is that it only asks a little intentionality.
Maybe I am naïve and overly optimistic. At any rate, I am reminded of an old
indigenous parable of the Two Wolves:
I am hopeful that as building leaders we will feed the Good
Wolf (Curiosity). I am confident that in
doing so we will inspire our team to do the same with our scholars.
-T. A. Cornute
Tai-I absolutely love this post. "The one you feed." Applicable to every binary situation. Thank you for sharing this!
ReplyDeleteYou are what you eat, or what you are fed. Great message. There is a contagion factor here, too. You don't just feed yourself, the others you choose (or have) to be around can poison you as well.
ReplyDeleteGreat post! I agree with your thoughts about the indifference of teachers towards their students. It is much easier to rationalize unproductive consequences when you are indifferent. I am interested in finding ways to lead teachers to change from indifference to curiosity.
ReplyDeleteThis reminds me of one of my favorite messages from Maya Angelou on her Master Class about being human and understanding all the negatives and positives that human beings can contribute, you have those capabilities as well. In the words of Maya, "that's one thing I'm learning."
ReplyDeletehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ePodNjrVSsk